Its understood or inevitable that I haven't blogged for months. I have pondered, much, the fact I want to get back into blogging. If not for my own sake but for my kids. Obviously we have been up to something over the last few months. And many of you who know me know that I have been going through a little bit of a storm. I am narrowing it down to 'I', not because I don't feel others involved aren't going through their own thing, or the same thing. But as, it is what it is in my world right now. For those of you who have me as a friend on facebook, you are able to see what we are up to almost daily. However, I do love the blogging world because I can get a little farther into detail as to what is happening and it is more of a bibliography.
Things happen for a reason, and I believe in as much 'People' happen for a reason. I believe we come in contact with new, old, or people who have been there all along at different points for different reasons. Whether it be to learn or grow from, to lean on, to help in some way, or to simply be there for you so you are not alone. I have come to make friends who have come into my life who play all of those roles. And to that I am so very grateful for. I have learned recently your true friends and family are there for you when you need them. I have learned that even if you are in someone's life for several years and the odds aren't necessarily in your favor.. but aren't completely against your favor, people will still drop you at any given time. And to those people I say shame on you. Shame on the fact that if something is to happen for the good of two people how hard it is to forgive you for your words, thoughts and actions. Especially when there are children involved who deserve the respect as well. To those of you who do not show nor share any ill feelings but only support I thank you. My family members are HUGE examples to me of this. Spite any negativity that has come into my life not ONE member of my family will share or say anything to provoke any hard feelings or any sense of..... oh, I will say it, DRaMa. I cannot explain how much this means to me. I have an amazing family. I truly believe there is no family out there like them. Ah, and it is sad that every parent, or all siblings out there cannot be like mine. I WISH I were a spitting image of mine and their examples. I can only keep TRYing.
So, as I am trying my best to BE at my best as a mother to 3 BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING children. I will do my best at blogging and sharing these wonderful moments that we share together. I wish to share more detailed stories. It is amazing at what they come up with and do. West boggles my mind daily with his smarts. Gage just tries his hardest to keep up with him as he copies every little thing he does. And Alyssa, ohh man, ALYSSA she is going into Jr High! It is only going to get more tough (it only has to because it has been an absolute JoY and so easy thus far with Lys)! Just as, I feel SO old!
As it is summer.. and actually has turned into summer, I plan to be as outdoorsy as we can be together. I love being outside. I love the mountains. I love the feelings I have when I am in the mountains. There is a closeness to my heavenly father that I feel. A sense of peace, comfort and even patience. Stay tuned...
Much Love,
Mindy



8 comments:
Just want to tell you I love you and I am there for you if you need anything. Love Aunt Lynette
Mindy, I am sure you probably don't remember me as I am a few years younger than you, but I grew up in the Decker Lake ward and you were in my stake. I knew who you were from stake youth things and have always loved your dad. He is one of the nicest guys I have ever met. I found your blog a few months ago somehow and read it frequently because I really admire you. I think you are an amazing mother, family member, and friend to those who know you will and I love seeing the things you are up to. You have inspired me to do more with my daughter and I actually even took her for her first hike a few weeks ago up to Neff's Canyon and it was awesome. I haven't posted a comment yet on your blog because I didn't think you would even know who I am and was nervous to say hi, but after this post, I felt like I should let you know that there are so many people out there who admire you and think you are great. You are exactly right that you really find out who your true friends are when you go through some hard times. I recently went through a divorce and it was amazing to see the support I had from people I didn't know even cared. I hope you continue to do well and I look forward to your posts.
Julie (Henline) Smith
Julie,
I don't even know quite what to say. You brought tears to my eyes. I appreciate your such kind words and thoughts more than you know. I vaguely DO remember you. Your face looks absolutely familiar (maybe girls camp?? :) ). I don't know if My Dad could be anything but loved by anyone who meets him. :) He is the most christ-like human being I know or ever have known.
I LOVE the idea of even remotely inspiring you to do more with your daughter. I could only wish for more time to do all that I would LOVE to do with my kids. In a perfect world right?! :) I haven't been to Neff's canyon. Where is that? I might need to get out my hiking book and check it out. I need more little fun trails to take the kids out and enjoy it all as much as I do.
Again Julie, I sincerely appreciate your comment and look forward to reading more into YOUR blog to get to know you better. Thank you!
Mindy
And P.S. Lynette, you know I love and appreciate ya! Or I hope you do! Thank you for ALL your love and support. XoXo
YAY Mind, I have been waiting for you to blog again!haha I just wanted to tell you that I love ya;)And you need to come hike some trails out here:)
Hugs... Loving you every minute! Hang in there, Sweetie... we are HERE for you whenever... REALLY!
FINALLY! We've been wondering when you were coming back to the blog world! ;) I REALLY hope you are doing well. Jory and I have been thinking about you guys often and worried. I believe in happiness... let's just leave it at that and you know why! ;) Best of luck and keep us posted!
MINDAY!
I too found your blog a few months ago and have been reading but didn't know how to say hi but thought this was a good time! :)
I'm not sure what you are going through but I am sorry you are going through a hard time! You are such a sweet and positive person and I miss you!
Lindsay
P.S. Your kids are beautiful!
LinD-SAY! Im so glad you said something! So I know youre still alive! ;) Also thanks for adding me on facebook. Its been so much fun seeing your pictures of you and your cute little fam! I cant believe how fast time flies!! :) Do keep in touch!! You are and have always been such a beautiful girl inside and out! Xo
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